I feel like this should be pretty self-explanatory. I’m drawing these for a zine at my college (and they have a tumblr! lips-appstate.tumblr.com!), but submissions are due today, so they’re a bit more rushed than I would have liked.
I tried to be inclusive and not-shitty. Hopefully I succeeded at that. There are more of these I’d like to draw, but like I said, time limitations :P
Anonymous asked: I just watched that video and I'm not quite sure how to feel. Are those kinds of people even real? Like, the guys? Do people even fucking say "m'lady" if they're not in a relationship, or hell, even in one? I just feel weird about it because like, I'm a lonely guy and I want a girlfriend, but how do I make it seem like I don't come across as creepy? Just don't act like those guys? Make sure kindness is genuine?
Fabulous, the concept of the friendzone is one that makes me all riled up. I have fended these sorts of people off since middle school on behalf of myself and my friends.
TL;DR: WOMEN ARE HUMAN BEINGS WITH A CONSCIOUS MIND AND PERSONAL AUTONOMY JUST LIKE MEN AND WOULD LIKE TO BE TREATED IN THIS WAY
IT IS A WONDER ISN’T IT
Just adding my two cents’ worth; those who identify as female, and who are romantically / sexually interested in males, will leave (or become uncomfortable) if they feel that they’re being used.
If a woman feels that the sole reason she is being talked to is because she’s expected to “put out” at the end of it all because holy fucking shit a man gave her attention - she won’t. She will walk away and the self fulfilling prophecy comes true once again.
And honestly, thinking of a woman that way and/or treating her that way, is just as ‘misogynistic’ as other behaviours some feel they are countering.
It doesn’t matter if an attractive man, or someone who refers to himself as a “nice guy” is pulling those moves - it ends in the same reaction.
So as Olivia said; talk to a woman like someone who is an equal to you, and you’ll be fine.
Pro tip: don’t bake them a fucking pie.
IM FUCKING SCREAMING
IM IN FUCKING STITCHES
the only thing funnier than this video are the comments on it
IT’S SO FUNNY CAUSE THEIR MAIN PROBLEM IS THEY DON’T RECOGNIZE ANYONE’S FEELINGS BUT THEIR OWN
AND THE COMMENTS DO EXACTLY THAT
I wish it was funny but it’s actually majorly exhausting and we really don’t value your attention as much as you fuckin’ think. :| How bout you wander off and let us get wasted in peace?